Be Your Best Self
Danielle Brown and Nathan Kai
At a time when more and more youngsters are suffering from low self-esteem, Danielle Brown double Paralympic Gold medallist and five times world champion in archery and Nathan Kai, (just seven at the time of writing), a member of MENSA and an elite athlete, have joined forces, creating a book to empower children to become their very best selves.
Profusely illustrated and including motivational quotes from the authors as well as the likes of Dr Seuss and J.K.Rowling, Michelle Obama and Amelia Earhart, this certainly is an inspiring book.
With a straightforward, thematically organised framework children are told to dream big and then determine what steps they need to take to fulfil their dreams.
Aspects such as The Mind and Mindset, which looks at the importance of developing a growth mindset rather than a fixed mindset,
Staying Focused, Learning How to Fail Well ( it’s a chance to learn), Self-Confidence,
People Skills, and the importance of eating well and getting plenty of sleep are included.
I have a teenage friend in Udaipur, Rajasthan who, one Christmas holiday four years ago announced she wanted to be sports captain of her school. She is a talented athlete but there is a tradition in Rajasthan for shooting and Karttiki decided she would try to become a shooter.
She started to practice in earnest and by luck one of the older girls fell sick at the last moment and Karttiki was given a chance to participate in an inter-school tournament. Thus began her shooting journey: one of determination and great focus.
Having researched several kinds of shooting, she decided that her best bet if she wanted to become a champion, was skeet. It’s a tough sport and very expensive but her father (my close friend) is very supportive. This year though still a junior, she has made the senior national team and in 2019, has represented India in the World Cup, World Championships and is about to go to the Asian Games (all this before A-levels). She’s had her downs as well as her ups along the way and feels tired a lot of the time, but as she says, “I’m doing it because I love it.”
Turning a dream into reality is just what this 17 year old is surely doing: she epitomises the spirit of this splendid book.