Jessica Kingsley Publishers
Subtitled ‘A book for Brothers and Sisters When a Baby Dies Shortly after Birth’, this little picture book is intended to help explain sibling loss to young children.
Ellen has been waiting for a new baby – ‘something special’ but her new brother Stewart is very weak and never makes it back home. He’s been ‘lost’ is how her Granny puts it.
Ellen searches all over the house for Stewart even in the washing machine,
wondering perhaps, if he’s gone to the moon in his spaceship.
Her parents then help her to understand the new baby has died and isn’t going to come back.
Together they plant a cherry tree for Stewart, so they will always have a special place to remember him.
The book concludes with a guide to bereavement aimed at adults, written by qualified clinicians; this includes some suggested activities.
Sensitively told and illustrated, with gentle touches of humour, this is a book that one hopes few people will have need of, but it could prove invaluable to those families unfortunate enough to suffer such a bereavement. Schools, nurseries and children’s centres should certainly keep a copy on their shelves.